When She’s Spiralling and You Don’t Know What to Do…

You love her fiercely

But sometimes the chaos, meltdowns and silence leave you whispering into your pillow at 3am:

“WTF am I doing wrong?”

The Truth?

You’re not broken.

She’s not broken.

But the longer this cycle continues, the harder it gets to rebuild trust, connection and calm.

And while you’re stuck in survival mode… she’s growing up fast.

These years don’t come back.

That’s why I created WTF: What’s The Feeling

A brave coaching community for mums raising girls deemed “too much” in a world that doesn’t understand them.

The Silent Fear You Carry

You’ve tried everything: staying calm, snapping, bribing, researching symptoms at 2am…

And yes, the spirals keep coming.

Every slammed door, every meltdown, every shutdown adds another layer of distance.

And if nothing changes?

  • Relationships deteriorate.

  • Trust fractures.

  • She starts making choices in places you can’t protect her.

The cost of waiting isn’t just another bad day. It’s years of connection you can’t rewind.

Imagine this Instead

Six months from now:

  • You walk into a meltdown with grounded energy.

  • She softens because she finally feels safe.

  • You know what’s really happening under her big feelings - and what to do next.

Instead of spiralling apart, you spiral closer.

And you’re not doing it alone.

You’re surrounded by other mums who get it.

Introducing WTF: What’s The Feeling?

5 module honest, science backed coaching programme + brave community that helps mums like you:

  • Make sense of your daughter’s big feelings

  • Break free from the chaos cycle

  • Parent with calm confidence instead of guilt

  • Rebuild trust before the distance becomes a wall

This isn’t a parenting strategy.

This isn’t about fixing her.

This is about connection. Belonging.

A revolution in how we raise our girls.

  • The Fog

    You’re drowning. You think it’s your fault. It’s not. You just haven’t been shown how to swim.

  • The Shift

    You realise she’s not defiant, she’s dysregulated. And something in your chest loosens.

  • The Anchor

    You stop spiralling with her. You learn to hold the moment. She feels it.

  • The Rhythm

    Your relationship calms. She opens up and it becomes easier to communicate.

  • The Integration

    Calm becomes your new normal. Shame loses its grip. You both grow, together and separately.

What You’ll Get Inside WTF

When you join, you’re not just learning tools - you’re joining a movement of mums who refuse to dim their daughter’s light.

✅ Monthly Group Coaching Calls - Bring your chaos. Leave with clarity.

✅ Speaker Sessions - Real talk on self-harm, disordered eating, nervous system health, neurodivergence, identity, social media.

✅ Monthly Q&A - Ask the stuff you’re scared to say out loud. Get answers that don’t gaslight you.

✅ Private Community Space - No judgment. No trolls. No perfection. Just solidarity.

✅ In-Person Meetups Every 3 Months - Hug it out. Touch grass. Cry face-to-face with people who get it.

Bonus: 🎁 WTF Is Going On? - Quick start tools for the toughest days

All for only £30/month

I’ve Been Where You Are

I’ve stood at the top of the stairs, heart pounding, afraid to open her door.

I’ve been hit, bitten, screamed at, barricaded out of my own home.

I’ve broken down in my car until my head throbbed.

And then I realised:

She wasn’t trying to hurt me.

She was hurting.

And I was her safest place to fall apart.

The moment I stopped trying to fix her and started listening…. everything shifted.

Not perfect. Not tidy.

But real. And connected.

And now I help other mums do the same.

Two Futures. One Choice.

Path A:

Six months from now, you’re still walking on eggshells.

She’s shutting you out.

The bond is breaking.

The gap is widening.

Path B:

Six months from now, you’re laughing at the dinner table.

She trusts you enough to open up.

You feel grounded, clear and connected.

Both futures are possible BUT only one starts today.

Why Now?

Because spirals don’t shrink with time - they grow.

Because our girls are burning out younger than ever.

Because the longer you wait, the more distance, regret and risky choices creep in.

Your girl is growing up.

The question is: will you grow closer, or further apart?

This is for the mums who’ve been cracked open.

The ones who’ve whisperer “WTF am I even doing?” at 3am.

The ones who know deep down: if nothing changes - everything breaks.

You don’t have to do this alone.

You don’t have to keep firefighting.

You can choose connection today.

Choose your plan

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Group Programme

Total Value: £552/mth

£30/mth

Online Course +
Virtual Support

  • Monthly Coaching Calls (worth £97)

  • Speaker Sessions (worth £147)

  • Monthly Q&A (worth £97)

  • Private Community Space (worth £47)

  • Online What’s The Feeling Course (worth £147)

  • Bonus WTF Guide (worth £17)

  • In-Person Meet Ups (Extra Costs May Apply)

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Total Value: £819/mth

£295/mth for 6 months

or £147.50/mth for 12 months

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  • 6 Months 1:1 Coaching (worth £197)

  • Priority Access to Me (worth £70)

  • Bespoke Strategies Tailored to Your Daughter (priceless)

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  • Speaker Sessions (worth £147)

  • Monthly Q&A (worth £97)

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  • Online What’s The Feeling Course (worth £147)

  • Bonus WTF Guide (worth £17)

  • In-Person meet Ups (Extra Costs May Apply)

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