WTF: What’s The Feeling
A brave space for mums raising girls deemed “too much” in a world that doesn’t understand them.
You love her fiercely.
Some days, you’re so close to the edge you can taste the scream in your throat.
You’re not broken.
She’s not broken.
She’s trying to tell you something - through the chaos, the meltdowns, the silence.
Limited spots in the WTF First Ever Group £25/month
Motherhood feels like a tightrope you never asked to walk…
You love her. Fiercely.
But f*ck, it’s hard.
Some days you’re so close to the edge you can taste the scream in your throat.
You’ve been hit. Bitten. Slapped.
You’ve cried in the car so hard you gave yourself a headache.
You’ve whispered “What the f*ck am I doing wrong?” into your pillow at 3am.
You’re not a bad mum.
You’re not broken.
And neither is she.
She’s not too much.
She’s trying to tell you something through the mood swings, the shutdowns, the meltdowns.
This is her nervous system, not defiance.
This is overwhelm, not bad behaviour.
This is communication, not chaos.
But no one ever taught you how to listen.
You were taught to shut it down.
To fix. To control.
To cope.
Well, f*ck that. It’s time for something different.
The world wasn’t built for girls like ours
Our girls are reaching for labels, not support.
They’re being told they’re too much, too sensitive, too loud, too emotional, too everything.
But what if the real problem isn’t her?
What if it’s a culture that demands she shrink?
What if it’s a system that praises quiet compliance and punishes raw feeling?
She doesn’t need fixing.
She needs to feel safe.
And so do you.
We’re done medicating the magic out of our daughters.
We’re done diagnosing away their needs.
We’re done pretending this is normal.
This isn’t a parenting strategy.
This is a revolution.
WTF isn’t a plan. It’s a fight to be real
I’ve been there.
I’ve stood at the top of the stairs, heart pounding, afraid to go back into her room.
I’ve flinched when she came at me, screaming, biting, red with rage.
I’ve broken down more times than I can count.
But then I saw it:
She wasn’t trying to hurt me.
She was hurting.
And I was her safest place to fall apart.
The moment I stopped trying to fix her and started getting curious, everything changed.
I didn’t become perfect.
She didn’t stop feeling big.
But the war between us ended.
And now I help other mums do the same.
So what is WTF: What’s The Feeling?
WTF is a 5 module honest, science backed path to finally making sense of what’s really driving your daughter’s big feelings and tricky behaviours.
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The Fog
You’re drowning. You think it’s your fault. It’s not. You just haven’t been shown how to swim.
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The Shift
You realise she’s not defiant, she’s dysregulated. And something in your chest loosens.
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The Anchor
You stop spiralling with her. You learn to hold the moment. She feels it.
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The Rhythm
Your relationship calms. She opens up and it becomes easier to communicate.
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The Integration
Calm becomes your new normal. Shame loses its grip. You both grow, together and separately.
You do have options - but only one that actually makes sense
You could:
• Keep Googling symptoms at 2am
• Wait for CAMHS referrals that never come
• Numb her pain with rewards and punishments
• Pretend everything’s fine
• Keep the secret shame loop spinning
OR
You could…
• Learn to hear what her body is actually saying
• Show up for her with presence, not panic
• Walk into meltdowns with grounded energy
• Stop parenting from guilt and start parenting from clarity
• Finally feel like: I know what I’m doing. I’ve got her. I’ve got me.
What you’ll get as a founding member in the very first group
✅ Monthly Group Coaching Calls
Themed, tool-based, interactive. Bring your chaos. Leave with clarity.
✅ Speaker Sessions
Self-harm. Disordered eating. Nervous system. Neurodivergence. Identity. Social media.
✅ Monthly Q&A
Ask the stuff you’re scared to say out loud. Get answers that don’t gaslight you.
✅ Private Community Space
No judgment. No trolls. No perfection. Just solidarity.
✅ In-Person Meetups Every 3 Months
Touch grass. Cry face-to-face. Hug people who get it.
Bonuses:
🎁 WTF Is Going On?
All this for only £25/month
The Transformation: It’s Real
You’ll stop asking “what’s wrong with her?”
You’ll know what’s going on underneath.
You’ll have the language, the tools, and the energy to hold her, not just handle her.
You’ll shift from reaction to connection.
From confusion to clarity.
From fixing to anchoring.
She’ll feel seen. Safe. Understood.
And when she finally looks at you with soft eyes instead of fury…
You’ll know it’s working.
Why Now? Why You? Why Me?
Because our girls are burning out by 12.
Because masking, medicating, and melting down is the new norm and it shouldn’t be.
Because you’re tired.
And you shouldn’t have to do this alone anymore.
And because I get it.
I’ve lived it.
And I’ve come out the other side - not perfect, but whole.
I don’t offer shame. I offer tools.
I don’t fix girls. I listen to them.
I don’t teach you to control. I teach you to connect.
(Lowest it’ll ever be. No fluff. Just the truth.)