Founding member price: £77/month - available until 3rd June only. After that it goes up to £97/mth.
It’s 2am. You’re googling again. And the more you read, the more lost you feel.
Your daughter’s behaviour isn’t the problem. What’s underneath it is. And once you understand that, you know exactly what to do.
The WTF Community - What’s The Feeling don’t you know 😉 is a coaching membership that takes you through 5 stages - from the fog of not knowing what’s going on, to calm, connected parenting that actually lasts. No quick fixes. Just real understanding.
✓ No more Googling at 2am ✓ Real coaching, not just content ✓ Tools that actually work
THE DIFFERENCEAre you stuck in the fog?
Here’s what life looks like before and after you understand what’s actually going on underneath the behaviour.
RIGHT NOWWHAT YOU’RE SEEING AT HOME
She’s on her phone 24/7. She screams at you, blames you for everything that’s going wrong. She spends whole days in her room. She goes from zero to explosion with no warning. And the girl you knew - the one who used to talk to you, laugh with you, want to be around you - feels like she’s disappeared.
WHAT YOU’RE THINKING
“School/college/GP thinks she might be autistic, have anxiety or ADHD, but what if there’s more to it than that? What if the label isn’t the whole answer?”
HOW YOU’RE FEELING
Exhausted. Like you’re getting it all wrong. Waking at 2am to Google what’s wrong. Completely alone in trying to figure it out.
WHAT YOU’RE DOING
Trying everything anyone suggests. Fire-fighting every little thing. Caught between what professionals are telling you and what you’re actually seeing at home.
Confused. Anxious. A disconnected relationship with your daughter. And a nagging feeling that something important is being missed.
WITH WTFWHAT YOU’RE SEEING AT HOME
She’s coming out of her room. You’re spending real time together - planning activities, having fun, laughing again. The phone is still there but it’s not the be all and end all it once was. She has hobbies and she’s connecting with friends and family again. And the girl you thought you’d lost? She’s coming back.
WHAT YOU’RE THINKING
“Oh that’s what’s going on. That makes so much sense.
I get it now. Behaviour is never just about one thing.”
HOW YOU’RE FEELING
Calm. Clear. Confident. Connected to your daughter again. Part of a community of mums that really get it. Hopeful instead of scared.
WHAT YOU’RE DOING
Recognising the patterns - sleep, nutrition, screen time, sensory needs, play, her cycle. Responding with patience instead of reacting in the moment.
Clarity instead of confusion. Calm instead of anxiety. A relationship with your daughter that’s fun again. Both of you thriving, not just getting through each day.
WHY NOTHING ELSE HAS WORKEDThe same advice, over and over. And it’s still not working.
There are plenty of parenting platforms, courses and memberships out there. Most cost between £9 - £50/month.
They're cheap for a reason: they're built for everyone, which means they’re built for no one.
But what you need is someone who gets what you’re seeing at home is all connected - sleep, screen-time, nutrition, sensory play, how her body is coping, her cycle.
All of it. At the same time.
You could join a £9/month parenting group and get a dozen well-meaning opinions.
Or you could invest £97/month in The WTF Community - where someone finally connects the dots, you understand what's actually happening underneath the behaviour, and you're surrounded by mums who speak your language.
The same old advice won’t shift this. Understanding will.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF....Your daughter is struggling with anxiety, on her phone 24/7, in her room all the time, and you don’t know how to reach her
You’ve tried everything the professionals suggested and nothing has really worked
You feel like you’re walking on eggshells at home - one wrong (or right) word and it all kicks off
You’re exhausted from being the one who holds it together and you’re running on empty
You want to understand what’s actually going - not just manage the behaviour on the surface
Your daughter has a diagnosis, is waiting for one or has no label at all and you know the label isn’t the whole story
You want your relationship with your daughter to feel good again
You’re done Googling at 2am and are ready for real answers from someone who gets it
THIS PROBABLY ISN'T FOR YOU IF...You’re looking for a quick fix or to control your daughter’s behaviour
You’re looking for someone to tell you what’s wrong with her
You’re not open to looking at the bigger picture - sleep, nutrition, screen time, how she’s coping on the inside, real connection
You want someone to ‘fix’ your daughter’s behaviour, rather than support for yourself as mum
MY STORYI’ve been exactly where you are.
I’m Rach. I've spent years working with sick children and teens in hospitals and community settings. But none of that prepared me for what happened to my own daughter during COVID.
She's always had health challenges. But when the lockdowns hit and everything moved to screens, something shifted. She couldn't go outside. Couldn't do the adventure activities she loved. All she had was a phone in her hands all day, every day.
Her behaviour changed. She became scared every single day. She refused to leave her room. The caring, adventurous, playful teen I knew just… wasn’t there any more.
“I knew there was nothing wrong with her. Something was happening for her. But I had no idea what.”
I was exhausted. I was constantly fire-fighting. And I was doing it completely alone.
So I went and found out. I read everything. Did the training. And when I looked back at everything I knew about play and how the body responds under stress, it all clicked into place.
Everything changed after that. For her. For me. For us. And that's why I built the WTF Community - because I never want another mum to feel as lost and alone as I did.
I built this because I was fed up to the back teeth of us and our girls being told there was something wrong with them. There isn’t. They're just telling us something important - and once you now how to listen, everything shifts.
They were exactly where you are right now
THE RESET ROADMAP
The 5 stages - from lost to calm, clear parenting
Every mum starts somewhere. Here’s where you’ll go.
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1
The Fog
I've tried everything and nothing works."
You're lost, confused, like you’re getting it all wrong. Wondering: is there something wrong with my daughter? Or is it me?
Understanding that behaviour is never just about one thing.
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2
The Shift
"Oh, that makes sense."
You're starting to see the connections - sleep, nutrition, play, screen time. You're calmer.
The dots are connecting.
Getting yourself steady first, so you can be the calm she needs.
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3
The Awareness
"I know what's going on and why."
You’ve got the bigger picture now. You can see the patterns before they escalate. You respond from calm instead of reacting in the moment.
Reading the patterns and responding from clarity, not panic.
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4
The Lightbulb
"I can really see her now."
You're seeing your daughter for what she's going through. She trusts you. She feels heard. You're having fun together again.
Responding with confidence and clarity. Enjoying your daughter again.
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5
The Crystal Ball
We‘ve got something real. Something that lasts."
As she grows from pre-teen to teen to young adult, your relationship holds. She feels calm, connected to herself and to you.
Celebrating how far you've both come. Ready for whatever’s next.
WHAT’S INCLUDEDEverything you need to understand and support your daughter
Every month, you get the tools, the knowledge and the community in a format that fits around your life.
🗺 The Reset Roadmap
Your 5 stage framework so you always know where you are, where you’re going and what to focus on next, so you never feel like you’re just winging it.
🫂 Group Coaching Calls
Bring whatever is going on right now.We connect the dots together and you leave with real clarity so you can use what you’ve learned straight away.
🎙 Guest Expert Speaker Sessions
Speakers who actually understand girls - bringing in knowledge about topics that concern you (and your daughter), so you don’t have to hunt for them.
🧠 Monthly Masterclasses
Sleep, nutrition, sensory activities, screen time and more so you can start to connect the dots. Topics are shaped by what matters most to you.
💬 Live Q&A Sessions
The thing that’s been keeping you up at night gets answered, out loud by someone who gets it so you don’t have to wait a whole month.
🌲 Monthly Forest Meet-ups
Because sometimes the most helpful thing in the world is just being outside with other mums and daughters, so you can chill, and connect.
👥 The Community
An online non-judgemental space where you’re surrounded by other mums all going through the same thing, so you never feel alone.
📖 Resources
The handouts, insights and other resources on the topics you need - all in one place, so you don’t have to go hunting for it.
Your bonuses 🎁
5 Day Reset Kickstart Challenge - Jump in risk free, get a feel for the whole approach and have your first proper lightbulb moment before you’ve even fully committed. Worth £77 on its own.
All Videos Available as Audio - School run. In the car. Washing up. You don’t need to find extra time, just pop your earphones in and fit it around your day.
Join before 3rd June and pay £77/month
instead of the regular £97/month
This price closes 3rd June 2026
Join before 3rd June and you lock in £77/month for as long as you stay. You’ll also get a bonus 1:1 with me to talk through exactly what’s going on for your daughter. That’s gone when the founding member price closes. Everything else stays exactly the same.
FOUNDING MEMBER PRICE
No pressure. Just a proper chat to see if it’s right for you.
WHAT IT COSTSMore support. More understanding. More of you.
For less than a coffee a day.
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The Reset Roadmap - 5 stage framework
Monthly group coaching with Rach so you can use what you’ve learned straight away
Masterclasses on everything you need, so you can understand and connect the dots - behaviour is never just about one thing
Guest speaker session so you find out about the topics that matter the most so you don’t have to hunt for them
Live Q&As so you don’t have to sit on a question for a whole month
Forest meet-ups with other mums and daughters, so you can chill, relax and connect
An online community of mums who get it, so you never feel alone
Online resources so you have everything you need, when you need it
And your daughter gets a mum who finally understands what’a going on and knows exactly how to help. That’s the real maths.
VIP - LIMITED SPOTS
The WTF VIP Intensive
6 months x 1:1 with Rach
£667/month
6 monthly payments of £667 - Total £4002
Fortnightly calls with Rach - 12 sessions over 6mths, just you and me
12 months full access to the WTF Community
1 hour of audio coaching a month so you get access to me when you need it, not just on call days
Support that’s built entirely around you and your daughter’s relationship
The Reset Roadmap - 5 stage framework
Monthly group coaching with Rach so you can use what you’ve learned straight away
Masterclasses on everything you need, so you can understand and connect the dots - behaviour is never just about one thing
Guest speaker session so you find out about the topics that matter the most so you don’t have to hunt for them
Live Q&As so you don’t have to sit on a question for a whole month
Forest meet-ups with other mums and daughters, so you can chill, relax and connect
An online community of mums who get it, so you never feel alone
Online resources so you have everything you need, when you need it
And your daughter gets a mum who finally understands what’a going on and knows exactly how to help. That’s the real maths.
VIP spots are limited. I keep it that way on purpose so every mum gets the time and attention she needs. Book a connection call and we’ll have a proper conversation about whether it’s the right fit.
GOT QUESTIONS?Here are the ones I get asked most.
❓My daughter is autistic, has ADHD or anxiety - is this still for me?
100%. The WTF Coaching Community isn't about labels, it's about understanding your daughter as a whole person. Whether she has a diagnosis, is on a waiting list, or has no label at all, the same things matter: how her body is coping, her sleep, her cycle, her sensory needs, screen-time. The diagnosis is one piece of the picture. This is the rest of it.
❓What if I can't make the live calls?
Everything is recorded and you can watch it back or just listen as audio if the school run is the only time you've got. Life gets in the way. That's fine. The community is always there between calls too, so you're never just waiting for the next session.
❓How is this different from therapy?
Therapy works with your daughter. This works with you. Because here's the thing, when you shift, she shifts. This is about giving you the understanding, the tools, and the community to show up as the calm, grounded presence your daughter actually needs.
❓My daughter is only 9 - is she too young?
Not at all. The pre-teen years start earlier than most of us expect, and the patterns that show up at 9 or 10 are the same ones that can really escalate at 13 or 14 if we don't understand them. Getting in early is one of the kindest things you can do, for her and for your relationship.
❓I'm already exhausted - won’t this just add to my plate?
Actually it does the opposite. When you understand what's going on, the weight lifts. You stop fire-fighting and start responding from a place of calm, and everything feels lighter. Everything's designed to fit around real life: short enough to listen on the go, practical enough to actually use.
❓Does my daughter need to be involved in any of this?
Nope. This is entirely for you as her mum. You don't need her to agree, cooperate, or even know about it. When you understand what's going on and shift how you respond, everything between you changes, and she feels it, even if she couldn't tell you why.
❓What if it doesn't work for us?
Do the 5-Day Reset Kickstart Challenge and if you haven't had at least one proper lightbulb moment about what's going on for your daughter, I'll refund you in full. No questions, no awkwardness. I'm that sure about what's inside.
WHY NOTHING ELSE HAS WORKEDStop second-guessing. Start understanding.
Your daughter’s behaviour makes sense once you see what’s underneath it. And it starts with one conversation.
1️⃣ We talk about what’s actually going on for your daughter right now
2️⃣ We find the one thing that would shift everything for you
3️⃣ We work out if WTF community is the right fit - no pressure, no pitch
Free 30 minutes Just a proper chat
The fact that you’re still reading this tells me something. You’re ready for a different way. You’re ready to stop second-guessing yourself and actually understand what’s going on for your daughter.
This starts with one conversation. Let’s do this.